Post 9: Regret

I have made some notable mistakes in structuring my life and I'd love for you to learn from them. The regrets I carry revolve around the things I regretted NOT doing, rather than things I tried and failed at. I am sure we can all agree that the feeling of loss, disappointment and dissatisfaction that comes with regret is not pleasant for either of us.

Regret and death are deeply connected and death is a reality that we all share. We all hope that when we approach the end of our lives, we will be able recount all the things we've achieved and are proud of.  But there's a catch; it is extremely difficult to predict the future, and the outcomes of our efforts. Yes, we can certainly make assumptions and observe the lives of other people, but tomorrow still remains uncertain. Therefore, if I learned anything, it's that we must make a conscious effort to question ourselves each day and ask "What choices can I make TODAY that will minimize the amount of regret I may feel once I am old and fragile?"

Minimizing the amount of regret is not only about delayed gratification. It will also support you in the short-term. Because by aiming to minimize your future regrets you will sleep better knowing that you're acting out of integrity and purpose each and every day. It will not only transform your decision-making process, but it will also allow you to understand first-hand that fulfillment is inevitable when you live to the fullest in each moment.

I know that sometimes it's difficult to cross off all the goals we've set for ourselves, so make sure to tackle your biggest and most difficult ones first, because those are the ones that will move the needle for you! It may sound strange for me to tell you to go all in with your most dreaded goal, but when you'll look back on your life and recall the most rewarding moments of your existence, it will ALL be revolved around the goals you've worked the hardest for.

My final message to you is, please don’t allow yourself the opportunity on your death bed to say anything remotely close to "I wish I had…"